I genuinely can't think of anyone I know (including through the internet) who pronounces themselves as bi-sexual.
I know a few gay people, who are also attracted to a limited number of people of the opposite sex.
I know a couple of people who don't just avoid announcing their sexuality, they tend to avoid participating in this sort of conversation, even if it is happening around them.
And a few people who say tend to use the word poly when their sexuality comes up.
I do actually pronounce myself as such, but only, actually, because the NUS LGBT conference made me do so, and it's an easy label to use. I tend to think of myself as people-sexual, as it is (as, surely, in any case whether straight, gay or other) more complicated than simply bi.
I decided some time ago to accept the label "Geek" as most of the stereotypes that it implies are true about me. And it works as convenient way of guessing things I would like, but have never tired (like a pencil and paper, or live action, role playing game).
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Date: 2009-10-13 12:42 pm (UTC)You didn't include celibate, I note. Not the same as "asexual", of course (though for some of us, it makes no difference either way).
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Date: 2009-10-13 12:53 pm (UTC)I know a few gay people, who are also attracted to a limited number of people of the opposite sex.
I know a couple of people who don't just avoid announcing their sexuality, they tend to avoid participating in this sort of conversation, even if it is happening around them.
And a few people who say tend to use the word poly when their sexuality comes up.
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Date: 2009-10-13 12:55 pm (UTC)http://www.darcomic.org/2008/11/11/titles/
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Date: 2009-10-13 01:12 pm (UTC)Yeah, labels are just good, quick ways to generally sort people out into general pigeon holes. But they don't do service to individuals.
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Date: 2009-10-13 01:14 pm (UTC)